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Message for
Dancers
Dancers
INTRODUCTION
This site that was designed to better inform women who are
considering coming to dance in our clubs. Remember, it is not for
everyone but if you think you have what it takes we are offering a
great opportunity. It requires a certain temperament. Don't do it
because you feel you "have" to. If you hate what you do, it WILL
show and you will make very little money.
Tools of the Trade
Other than your body, which we'll get into later, the tools of the
trade are clothing, makeup, and shoes. In dancing,as with any
other trade, it never pays to buy cheap tools-that don't work well,
they break and you will just have to replace them anyway.
Heels are your first purchase. Minimum height is 3 inches-
anything shorter and your gut will stick out and your legs will look
like tree trunks. Look for a shoe with a plastic one-piece sole and
heel. Shoes with the leather and wood heals are much more
elegant but after the second night of dancing on them the heels
tend to flex too much and put a lot of stress on your knees and
back. Open toes tend to be more comfortable but if you're going
to wear them you have to make sure your toenails are painted
and trimmed. Putting no-slip rubber pads on the bottom of the
shoe is a good idea-it prevents embarrassing falls on slippery
stages.
Bottoms come in a few different varieties: choose according to
your tastes. All our clubs require thongs or tee-backs. A dancing
bottom can be purchased through mail order or at stores that
carry them. Many stores throughout Tokyo carry them as well.
Girls who try dancing in underwear or a swimsuit bottom always
look tacky. Buy the right kind.
The dresses that most of the girls wear are neon spandex micro
minis etc. Some other girls wear longer evening gowns. These
gowns like the bottoms need to be custom made or ordered-
nothing from the department store will cut it. One thing that I
cannot emphasis enough-NEVER ever wear an asymmetrical
dress (hem cut at an angle or one shoulder strap).As most
people know, men subconsciously look at certain physical
attributes as signs of good genetics and a desirable
partner-boobs, hips etc. They also look for something
anthropologists call "Bilateral Symmetry" which means that your
arms and legs are the same length, your torso is straight etc. An
asymmetrical dress throws this off. It may look nice but you can
actually chart the drop in earnings on a night to night basis
Hair from the neck down - it's all gotta go. Leave a little patch on
top. Even if you're only dancing topless you have to keep it pretty
clear. It looks really gross when little strands of hair stick out
from the side of your G-strings. Most girls wax but if it's a real
problem some girls get electrolysis (ouch either way). Laser hair
removal also gives good results. Many girls are doing the same
these days. Stubble is a definite no-no and shaving several days
a week causes irritation and ingrown hair. So stick with wax or
electrolysis.
Make up is pretty easy-most girls already know how to do that. A
vital tool of the trade is body makeup. This is used to cover any
blemishes that you might have on your body.
Your Body
What kind of shape you're in makes a bigger difference in your
earnings than anything else. An hour of exercise a day can mean
a lot of money in extra earnings each night. It's important that you
understand that your body is how you earn a living, as such you
have to take very good care of it. In the world of strip clubs the
name of the game is low body fat. Sure some men like extra
padding but no one likes cheese. It's an unfortunate truth but the
slimmer you are the more money you will make. You don't have
to be fashion model skinny but you do have to be tight if you
expect to make good money.
Here is a good example of a work out routine:
Squats 3 sets of 20 reps, 120 seconds rest between sets.
Stiff-leg dead lifts 3 sets of 10 reps, 120 seconds rest between
sets.
Rest 5 minutes
Dumbbell lunges 4 sets of 12 reps, 90 seconds rest between sets
Hanging crunches 4 sets 90 seconds rest between sets
The squats should be to failure, it should be very hard to hit 20.
Squats will make a bigger change in your physique then anything
else. When you do your yoga and running do it in the morning on
an empty stomach. If you have a real fat problem an hour of
running or jump rope a day before breakfast with a low/ no carb
diet can take a lot of fat in a short period of time.
One of the problems with maintaining relatively low levels of body
fat is that there is no way to have "spot" fat loss. It's all or
nothing. As you lose the fat off your butt and thighs you also lose
your breasts- often as much as a cup size. This is the reason that
many dancers choose to have breast augmentation. You can't
just diet when you think your getting fat, as a dancer you have to
maintain a consistently low level of body fat.
Dancing
There's no way around it, the first time you get on stage you're
going to be scared out of your wits. It is recommended not to
have a drink to "calm your nerves".
As far as dancing is concerned you have to see the way the other
strippers dance. There is not a whole lot to dancing - at least the
basics. You do not need lessons or to buy a video. Just watch
what the other girls are doing, you'll pick it up in a few minutes.
Just avoid anything showy or dramatic until you know how to do it
right. Before you audition I would suggesting out some of your
moves in front of a mirror then getting some constructive criticism
from a guy (they can be very helpful and are usually delighted to
assist). Once you get to know the other dancers they will
generally help you out and show you some of the trickier moves.
In my opinion it can be fun perfecting your dancing technique but
not something you should spend a lot of time at it. Guys
appreciate a good dancer but seldom buy dances from a girl
based on her dancing ability. You're better off spending the time
working out and improving your physique.
Your Finances
The minute you start dancing the clock is ticking. There are a
limited number of years in which to make as much money as you
can. Most dancers retire around 30. If you're starting when you're
18 that gives you twelve years in which to make as much as you
can and then get out. Chances are you will never again be able to
make as much per day as you do while dancing. Make the most
of it. So what to do with the money you save?
Well, set enough aside to pay for all your expenses -food, car,
whatever for 4 months. This is your emergency fund, put it in your
saving account and don't spend it. The rest you should invest. As
dancer you're looking to invest for the long term- at least 5 years
and probably 10. Mutual funds are low maintenance and well
suited for this. I strongly advise against investing in individual
stocks. Despite all tales of buying low and selling high at the end
of the year very few people are able to make money off buying
and selling individual stocks. Stick with mutual funds, they are
safer and more reliable (at least for the novice investor).
Making Money
At our clubs after your stage rotation you walk around and
hostess trying to sell private dances. The most important thing to
do when you're dancing is to SMILE AND MAKE EYE
CONTACT. Nothing turns a guy off faster than a dancer strolling
bored around the stage while staring vacantly off into space. Try
to make each guy you're dancing for think he is the ONLY guy
you're dancing for. This is how the pros make the big bucks.
At our clubs you will find that a significant part of your nightly
earnings comes from dances. Most of the time the customer will
pay for you to sit and talk with them as well. Guys vary a lot but
it's always important to be attentive. Nobody likes to feel like they
are being ignored. Most guys are pretty nice and easy to talk to.
Provided you're a good listener and act interested, it's no
problem. Then you get the guys who aren't trying to be
obnoxious- they just don't have the best social skills. They will sit
and alternate between nagging you to go out with them and lying
about how much money they have, how many places they've
traveled, how important they are in their company,etc. Simpering
and looks of wide-eyed wonder come in handy at this point.
Some guys are an absolute pleasure to sit with: they buy dances,
they visit on a regular basis, and best of all they 're lots of fun to
talk to. It's guys like this who really make it all worth while.
When dancing it's important to stay motivated, decide on what
time and how long you will have dinner for, the rest of the time
work the floor as hard as you can. Make sure you always get at
least 8 hours sleep so you're not tired. You will look and feel
better. Set a clear goal, try to get 4 dances and hour, as you get
better set higher goals for yourself. Never assume a passive
approach and wait for them to call you over, stay moving and
keep working. If it's hard and you just can't get motivated make a
game of it, make bets with other girls on who can get the most
dances. Promise yourself ice cream if you can reach a certain
mark, whatever you have to do to stay motivated and keep
earning money.
Learning how to properly break the ice and get invited to sit with
a customer takes time. Most girls tend to just walk around to
every guy in the room and ask "Wanna dance?" and then when
he says no walk off. This is the exact wrong approach. Every guy
in that room has enough money for at least one dance- you just
have to find the right words to get them to buy one. "Wanna
dance?" can work in a very crowded room or if a guy is already
interested but it will do absolutely nothing to convince a guy who
was uninterested to change his mind. It's too easy to say no to.
To start with, choose your targets, who is looking at you the most
when you're on stage or dancing for other customers? When you
approach your prospective customer try and say anything but
"Wanna dance?" : would you like some company?, would you like
if I joined you? If the room is slow and he seems reluctant put a
very slight push on. If he says he's not interested ask if he would
mind if you just sat down and rested your feet a for minute-
you're "not used to these heels". Few men are going to say no to
that, and the "not used to these heels" implies you are a new
dancer and invites conversation.
If 10 minutes go by and he still doesn't buy a dance don't ask-
just say "I'm sorry, I've got to get back to work- it's been nice
talking to you okay?" This implies that you didn't consider sitting
with him work, a slight bit of flattery that will probably get you a
dance later. Think of this approach as "seeding" in that you may
not get the dance then, but chances are you will later. After a
half-hour of "wanna dance" from the other girls he's going to wish
for your company again and probably be willing to pay for it. Or
even the next time he comes in yours will be the familiar face.
With this approach it's important you don't spend too long with
them- keep them hungry. Unless they're paying don't sit with them
longer than 1 to 15 minutes and only that long if the room is very
slow. If they're used to getting it for free it's going to be hard to
get them to pay for it. You're friendly and available- they just
have to be willing to pay for it.
We don't suggest that too much time is spent sitting on your own
or hanging out at the bar to talk to other dancers. At any given
time you should be either with a customer, moving to another
customer or on stage. If you're just standing around they will
assume you're not busy and it will be VERY hard to get a
customer to pay for your time because "you're not doing anything
anyway". Look busy, if they think other men want you then they
will want you.
It's important you have respect for the money they give you, so
much money changes hands that girls often forgot what it
represents. Let's say your customer earns $40.0000 a year after
taxes- probably about average income. That works out to around
$20 an hour. If a customer sits with you and you make $100,
that's 5 hours of his time. If a handyman came to your house and
fixed a thing for 5 hours you'd say "thank you" right? Always
thank the customer and make sure he knows you mean it. Even if
$100 doesn't seem like a lot of money to you- to the average
customer it is.
One last thing, don't screw with guys' heads. It's not cool, you
can make money without doing it. I see lots of girls who string
guys along implying they will go out with them if they just visit a
few more times or laying on sob stories about their sick children
or parents. Don't do it, there is never reason for you to lie as a
dancer. After a few repetitions it gets very fake and you just
come off as a greedy gold digger. If you want customers to treat
you with respect you should treat them with respect. If they are
disrespectful just walk away, there is no reason for you to sink to
their level. There are more then enough good men who will pay
you to sit, talk and laugh with them and when you dance they will
treat you like a goddess. As customers they deserve your
courtesy and if they don't respect you in return they don't deserve
to have you spend time with them.
This site that was designed to better inform women who are
considering coming to dance in our clubs. Remember, it is not for
everyone but if you think you have what it takes we are offering a
great opportunity. It requires a certain temperament. Don't do it
because you feel you "have" to. If you hate what you do, it WILL
show and you will make very little money.
Tools of the Trade
Other than your body, which we'll get into later, the tools of the
trade are clothing, makeup, and shoes. In dancing,as with any
other trade, it never pays to buy cheap tools-that don't work well,
they break and you will just have to replace them anyway.
Heels are your first purchase. Minimum height is 3 inches-
anything shorter and your gut will stick out and your legs will look
like tree trunks. Look for a shoe with a plastic one-piece sole and
heel. Shoes with the leather and wood heals are much more
elegant but after the second night of dancing on them the heels
tend to flex too much and put a lot of stress on your knees and
back. Open toes tend to be more comfortable but if you're going
to wear them you have to make sure your toenails are painted
and trimmed. Putting no-slip rubber pads on the bottom of the
shoe is a good idea-it prevents embarrassing falls on slippery
stages.
Bottoms come in a few different varieties: choose according to
your tastes. All our clubs require thongs or tee-backs. A dancing
bottom can be purchased through mail order or at stores that
carry them. Many stores throughout Tokyo carry them as well.
Girls who try dancing in underwear or a swimsuit bottom always
look tacky. Buy the right kind.
The dresses that most of the girls wear are neon spandex micro
minis etc. Some other girls wear longer evening gowns. These
gowns like the bottoms need to be custom made or ordered-
nothing from the department store will cut it. One thing that I
cannot emphasis enough-NEVER ever wear an asymmetrical
dress (hem cut at an angle or one shoulder strap).As most
people know, men subconsciously look at certain physical
attributes as signs of good genetics and a desirable
partner-boobs, hips etc. They also look for something
anthropologists call "Bilateral Symmetry" which means that your
arms and legs are the same length, your torso is straight etc. An
asymmetrical dress throws this off. It may look nice but you can
actually chart the drop in earnings on a night to night basis
Hair from the neck down - it's all gotta go. Leave a little patch on
top. Even if you're only dancing topless you have to keep it pretty
clear. It looks really gross when little strands of hair stick out
from the side of your G-strings. Most girls wax but if it's a real
problem some girls get electrolysis (ouch either way). Laser hair
removal also gives good results. Many girls are doing the same
these days. Stubble is a definite no-no and shaving several days
a week causes irritation and ingrown hair. So stick with wax or
electrolysis.
Make up is pretty easy-most girls already know how to do that. A
vital tool of the trade is body makeup. This is used to cover any
blemishes that you might have on your body.
Your Body
What kind of shape you're in makes a bigger difference in your
earnings than anything else. An hour of exercise a day can mean
a lot of money in extra earnings each night. It's important that you
understand that your body is how you earn a living, as such you
have to take very good care of it. In the world of strip clubs the
name of the game is low body fat. Sure some men like extra
padding but no one likes cheese. It's an unfortunate truth but the
slimmer you are the more money you will make. You don't have
to be fashion model skinny but you do have to be tight if you
expect to make good money.
Here is a good example of a work out routine:
Squats 3 sets of 20 reps, 120 seconds rest between sets.
Stiff-leg dead lifts 3 sets of 10 reps, 120 seconds rest between
sets.
Rest 5 minutes
Dumbbell lunges 4 sets of 12 reps, 90 seconds rest between sets
Hanging crunches 4 sets 90 seconds rest between sets
The squats should be to failure, it should be very hard to hit 20.
Squats will make a bigger change in your physique then anything
else. When you do your yoga and running do it in the morning on
an empty stomach. If you have a real fat problem an hour of
running or jump rope a day before breakfast with a low/ no carb
diet can take a lot of fat in a short period of time.
One of the problems with maintaining relatively low levels of body
fat is that there is no way to have "spot" fat loss. It's all or
nothing. As you lose the fat off your butt and thighs you also lose
your breasts- often as much as a cup size. This is the reason that
many dancers choose to have breast augmentation. You can't
just diet when you think your getting fat, as a dancer you have to
maintain a consistently low level of body fat.
Dancing
There's no way around it, the first time you get on stage you're
going to be scared out of your wits. It is recommended not to
have a drink to "calm your nerves".
As far as dancing is concerned you have to see the way the other
strippers dance. There is not a whole lot to dancing - at least the
basics. You do not need lessons or to buy a video. Just watch
what the other girls are doing, you'll pick it up in a few minutes.
Just avoid anything showy or dramatic until you know how to do it
right. Before you audition I would suggesting out some of your
moves in front of a mirror then getting some constructive criticism
from a guy (they can be very helpful and are usually delighted to
assist). Once you get to know the other dancers they will
generally help you out and show you some of the trickier moves.
In my opinion it can be fun perfecting your dancing technique but
not something you should spend a lot of time at it. Guys
appreciate a good dancer but seldom buy dances from a girl
based on her dancing ability. You're better off spending the time
working out and improving your physique.
Your Finances
The minute you start dancing the clock is ticking. There are a
limited number of years in which to make as much money as you
can. Most dancers retire around 30. If you're starting when you're
18 that gives you twelve years in which to make as much as you
can and then get out. Chances are you will never again be able to
make as much per day as you do while dancing. Make the most
of it. So what to do with the money you save?
Well, set enough aside to pay for all your expenses -food, car,
whatever for 4 months. This is your emergency fund, put it in your
saving account and don't spend it. The rest you should invest. As
dancer you're looking to invest for the long term- at least 5 years
and probably 10. Mutual funds are low maintenance and well
suited for this. I strongly advise against investing in individual
stocks. Despite all tales of buying low and selling high at the end
of the year very few people are able to make money off buying
and selling individual stocks. Stick with mutual funds, they are
safer and more reliable (at least for the novice investor).
Making Money
At our clubs after your stage rotation you walk around and
hostess trying to sell private dances. The most important thing to
do when you're dancing is to SMILE AND MAKE EYE
CONTACT. Nothing turns a guy off faster than a dancer strolling
bored around the stage while staring vacantly off into space. Try
to make each guy you're dancing for think he is the ONLY guy
you're dancing for. This is how the pros make the big bucks.
At our clubs you will find that a significant part of your nightly
earnings comes from dances. Most of the time the customer will
pay for you to sit and talk with them as well. Guys vary a lot but
it's always important to be attentive. Nobody likes to feel like they
are being ignored. Most guys are pretty nice and easy to talk to.
Provided you're a good listener and act interested, it's no
problem. Then you get the guys who aren't trying to be
obnoxious- they just don't have the best social skills. They will sit
and alternate between nagging you to go out with them and lying
about how much money they have, how many places they've
traveled, how important they are in their company,etc. Simpering
and looks of wide-eyed wonder come in handy at this point.
Some guys are an absolute pleasure to sit with: they buy dances,
they visit on a regular basis, and best of all they 're lots of fun to
talk to. It's guys like this who really make it all worth while.
When dancing it's important to stay motivated, decide on what
time and how long you will have dinner for, the rest of the time
work the floor as hard as you can. Make sure you always get at
least 8 hours sleep so you're not tired. You will look and feel
better. Set a clear goal, try to get 4 dances and hour, as you get
better set higher goals for yourself. Never assume a passive
approach and wait for them to call you over, stay moving and
keep working. If it's hard and you just can't get motivated make a
game of it, make bets with other girls on who can get the most
dances. Promise yourself ice cream if you can reach a certain
mark, whatever you have to do to stay motivated and keep
earning money.
Learning how to properly break the ice and get invited to sit with
a customer takes time. Most girls tend to just walk around to
every guy in the room and ask "Wanna dance?" and then when
he says no walk off. This is the exact wrong approach. Every guy
in that room has enough money for at least one dance- you just
have to find the right words to get them to buy one. "Wanna
dance?" can work in a very crowded room or if a guy is already
interested but it will do absolutely nothing to convince a guy who
was uninterested to change his mind. It's too easy to say no to.
To start with, choose your targets, who is looking at you the most
when you're on stage or dancing for other customers? When you
approach your prospective customer try and say anything but
"Wanna dance?" : would you like some company?, would you like
if I joined you? If the room is slow and he seems reluctant put a
very slight push on. If he says he's not interested ask if he would
mind if you just sat down and rested your feet a for minute-
you're "not used to these heels". Few men are going to say no to
that, and the "not used to these heels" implies you are a new
dancer and invites conversation.
If 10 minutes go by and he still doesn't buy a dance don't ask-
just say "I'm sorry, I've got to get back to work- it's been nice
talking to you okay?" This implies that you didn't consider sitting
with him work, a slight bit of flattery that will probably get you a
dance later. Think of this approach as "seeding" in that you may
not get the dance then, but chances are you will later. After a
half-hour of "wanna dance" from the other girls he's going to wish
for your company again and probably be willing to pay for it. Or
even the next time he comes in yours will be the familiar face.
With this approach it's important you don't spend too long with
them- keep them hungry. Unless they're paying don't sit with them
longer than 1 to 15 minutes and only that long if the room is very
slow. If they're used to getting it for free it's going to be hard to
get them to pay for it. You're friendly and available- they just
have to be willing to pay for it.
We don't suggest that too much time is spent sitting on your own
or hanging out at the bar to talk to other dancers. At any given
time you should be either with a customer, moving to another
customer or on stage. If you're just standing around they will
assume you're not busy and it will be VERY hard to get a
customer to pay for your time because "you're not doing anything
anyway". Look busy, if they think other men want you then they
will want you.
It's important you have respect for the money they give you, so
much money changes hands that girls often forgot what it
represents. Let's say your customer earns $40.0000 a year after
taxes- probably about average income. That works out to around
$20 an hour. If a customer sits with you and you make $100,
that's 5 hours of his time. If a handyman came to your house and
fixed a thing for 5 hours you'd say "thank you" right? Always
thank the customer and make sure he knows you mean it. Even if
$100 doesn't seem like a lot of money to you- to the average
customer it is.
One last thing, don't screw with guys' heads. It's not cool, you
can make money without doing it. I see lots of girls who string
guys along implying they will go out with them if they just visit a
few more times or laying on sob stories about their sick children
or parents. Don't do it, there is never reason for you to lie as a
dancer. After a few repetitions it gets very fake and you just
come off as a greedy gold digger. If you want customers to treat
you with respect you should treat them with respect. If they are
disrespectful just walk away, there is no reason for you to sink to
their level. There are more then enough good men who will pay
you to sit, talk and laugh with them and when you dance they will
treat you like a goddess. As customers they deserve your
courtesy and if they don't respect you in return they don't deserve
to have you spend time with them.
Exotic Dancers
